January - "Change"

The beginning of a new year is also an opportunity to start over. Either with new or old projects, that needs a fresh start.

One of my goals this year is to choose a subject for each month and during that period, post on Facebook thoughts, quotes, your comments, and at the end of the month to put them all together and write a little story on the blog.

The first subject was about Change.

“The key to change... is to let go of fear.” R.C.

"It's ok if you don't know what do you want to become, or what do you want to have in the future as long as you know what kind of man do you want to be.Character takes work too." From a story that i heard today.

I remember this story was exactly what i needed to hear, because sometimes i really didn't know what to answer when people were asking me, what do you want to become, where do you see yourself in 10 years. I have dreams of course, but nothing specific.I'm pretty much, flexible.

When it comes to my character, I know that I don't wanna stay. I wanna adventure into gaining more wisdom, peace, growing more in love and in being a blessing to others.

As my husband always says : " You know how not to get there." If you don't have a map for where you want to go, keep taking good decision and by avoiding the opposite you'll get at the destination.

With change comes change.The question is how do we face them.

The outside transformation brings changes on the inside. Also, when you transform on the inside, there will be visible changes on the outside too.

Sometimes you have to run to see things moving. Sometimes it takes a leap of faith to accept changes.

Little things build big dreams. You won't be able to see if you accomplished something, only after hard work, a little bit every day. But other times, changes just hits you. When that happens, you have to take small leaps of faith every day, in order to survive it.

There is a time of our lives when you love through all the changes, and it gets better and better. It's called Marriage.

This is my favorite. I heard about it a few times and i couldn’t believe it until I got to experiment on my own. And the most wonderful thing about changes in Marriage, they can be bad or good, but it still gets better, because friendships grows through hard times.

We're all transformed every day, different situations or people are shaping us, it's a pretty unsecure ground when you think about what will we become. Make sure you stay around good things to reach a stable shape at the end, integrity.

Here I thought about sometimes without even notice, just because we live in a certain environment or have a certain habit, that will change us, and not always in good. That’s why it’s good to be careful where you go and what you do, cause you might think you’re strong to keep your integrity but there’s still little foxes that will ruin it.

Synonyms for change: " To change is to make a material difference so that the thing is distinctly different from what it was: to change one's opinion. To alter is to make some partial change, as in appearance, but usually to preserve the identity." hmm...

This was from the Dictionary, I knew I’ll find something interesting in the definition.

I belive that when God take over your life, you will be totally different from what you were. He will change your identity. I like though how He still keeps our personalities different. Is like we are His flock , we are all sheeps but different colors, it’s gotta be interesting 

Don't be afraid of change.It can only come from 2 directions: you or something else/ someone else. It's much easier when the Father of the Universe orchestrates that 'else'.

When problems hits and you only see bad things coming from that, if your in His hands, He knows what He’s doing, any change will be for good. I can’t promise you everything is gonna be perfect, I can promise you though that at the end it will turn out good for you, someway or another, when you live for God He will take care of that.

When you change, make it visible.It might help someone to see that it's possible.

When you make a decision, do it with all your heart, if you wanna let go an addiction or other thing that it’s not good for your life, do it radically. Don;t decieve your dear ones with in vain appearances, make it visible. You might encourage others in the same situation. They need to know it’s hope.